Most observers of both sexes ask him
How do I deal with the opposite sex?
....* I would like to be the daughters of my generation things that are loved by everyone and especially of the opposite sex but I can not deal with the opposite sex like them smoothly
And I do not make friends of them and this makes me feel lonely and isolated from society
It also generates an internal hatred and hatred towards my colleagues, what can I do? How do I deal with the opposite sex?
The solution is simple:
1 - a good understanding of the opposite sex:Here are some simple attributes that characterize the nature of each sex from the other according to psychologists.
The nature of man
The nature of women- Are physical and emotional maturity late, some time about the girl- Bolder and less shy- Words of appreciation and encouragement affect the- Things tend to process more than fiction- Tends to use physical force- The mind often takes place before the passion- Raise the sexual scenes sexual instinct directly- Rest of the girl kind polite- He loves to get on the leadership- He loves women in his subject and tend to violent or domineering woman - are physical and emotional maturity earlier than the young man about two years- Less aggressive and more shame- Words of appreciation and encouragement affect them more- Tend more to the imagination of young people- Tend to use emotions- Emotion is often the key to her character before the mind- Sexual images does not raise instinct in general, but some of the words or touches- Comfortable for a man committed to responsible- Less likely to command- Love for a man to stand beside them and led without love, but recognizes
Now, if each party was able to understand the nature of the opposite sex, this will gain him an important skill in dealing with him.
II: Towards a clean look to the opposite sex:* The tendency towards the opposite sex is a natural tendency in myself, God created man for looking for a partner - a counterpart - is integrated with and unite ..
But our view of risk to deviate towards the opposite sex, our eyes are working harder stares wrong.
Or engage in frivolous talk is purposeful; leading to the decline of this natural tendency to circle the pure ugly desires.* Clean look towards the opposite sex is to see a young man to the girl as:- A respected figure with the thought and aspirations, not like eating flesh.- My partner in humanity, and on the same my level and not less.- Complementary to me, I am I need a Thtajna.- A sister to me I will not accept or harm her wounded feelings.
............ ......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ....
* Clean and the view towards the opposite sex is to see a young woman to young man that:- I need my brother and I respect him.- A person, not a wolf or a demon.- My partner in humanity and my level on the same.- If there is a reckless young fiddler, there are also young Taher.* This view of pure sound of the opposite sex is a key factor in the success of the life process,
They are also the basics of the formation of personality, and so are the pillars of the life of purity.
Third, the areas of dating:
Interaction between the sexes begins preordains mutual understanding between them and getting to know - if - should be a natural way, without cost does not manufacture, and in conditions of normal life ..- There is a family long relationship: a long relationship structured under the parental care and guidance, to help young people to go out for self, and character building,- And refinement of the senses, and remove ambiguity about the nature of the opposite sex ..And the beginning of childhood and the exchange of visits with families Alkhrojat ..And meet the boys and girls in the light, without the pressure and the imposition of bad faith ..
The deliberate separation between the sexes, which is sometimes practiced at the family or outside his negative results ..The aim of they are doing - good faith - to avoid problems that may occur as a result of the interaction between the sexes,They believe that the absence of the phenomenon of the problems - thanks to the continuing divergence between the sexes - but it is a measure of integrity and chastity!Regardless of the suffering and internal conflicts that gripped the young man as a result of the feeling of isolation and confinement on the self ..!- There is also a long relationship in the scope of the study: the Activity conditions enable young people of both sexes within the school or university or private lessons- The availability of networking opportunities between the two .. These meetings are very useful building the collective personality of the individual,And refine the psychological and social experience .. The best way to take advantage of acquaintance between the sexes in the scope of the study to start a collective and collectively continue ..Ie, do not turn over time is limited to a special relationship with a student where the student separate from the rest of the group.Should also be limited in the scope of acquaintance school life, without relations to be developed outside the boundaries of the school or university ..- A long relationship in the vicinity of friends and neighbors: It should be in the light, as well, and naturally is artificial, and be mature and respectful ..
Fourth: The benefits of proper handling of gender:1 - to deal opens the way for young men and women to understand the nature of each other ..2 - to deal opens the way for normal growth, psychologically and morally, when all of a young girl ..3 - the interaction between gender compensate for the lack of some educational circumstances that may arise in which an individual ..4 - and reduces the pressure of nationality, because it creates a healthy atmosphere between the sexes together ..5 - contributes to personal maturity and construction, as it helps to refine the passion and turn in the direction of solving the other (love the year) ..6 - the participation of young men and women together in collective action contributes to - without doubt - the development of self-confidence,It also develops the ability to dialogue and respect the other opinion, qualifies as a method of understanding, and teaches etiquette etiquette of dealing with others in general,And addresses the frequency, and strengthens the ability to make decisions ..7 - The contribution of young men and women in the work of a collective sharedKalaaadad for concerts, exhibitions or planning a trip or service shelters .. All this helps to develop self-checkout process,And strengthen the spirit of service, in addition to the bombing of the technical capacity and the creativity of young men and women, and the discovery of skills and talent ..8 - The presence of young people in the group contributes - along with all the previous features - in the spiritual growth of young men and women ..This is because the life company does not develop the direction of the individual out for himself only, but give the group a spiritual tinge through common prayer,And study the Word of God, and joint approach.
Fifth, some deal only with the opposite sex (the proper handling characteristics between the sexes):Dealing with the opposite sex the art of an important and essential for life, and should begin to gradually gained since the beginning of adolescence ..And put here in front of you some important guidelines that will help you in dealing with the opposite sex:1 - treated group: love and respect for all without allocation, Valt_khasas be in a marriage relationship only,The composition of the binaries out of the marriage is playing with fire and erosion of the reputation of the parties. Flanfrad and isolation make the individual does not benefit the advantage of being in the group!2 - There should be a meaningful relationship and not a frivolous or merely Alastltaf only, and should also be treated to a specific area (in the study - at work - in the service) ..Here we can say with the right that society should be a mixed community, not the work of community friends .. This is a fact important social and educational.3 - treated Cor: should the deal between the sexes on mutual respect for people "other,"This required young men and women conduct a special dignity. There will be many young humor and clowning, and the girl is trying to draw attention to her clothes and her style ..3 - to have to deal in the light, and not in secret, so do not give the devil a chance to work.4 - should take into account the young man to deal gently with the girl and literature, and respected and appreciated by not Egerhaa offensive word,And adjusts his eyes always to deal with, so his instincts are not moving in the wrong direction.5 - should be sensitive to young to deal with the young man seriously and respectfully, and take into account the modestyIn the clothing and movements and how to speak with him so as not to stumble, and be prudent and think carefully before speaking and acting.6 - dealing in the limits: The method of interaction between two people of the same sex, is different - certainly - the young and deal for the girl ..Young person can meet with his friend at any time, and stay with him for an unlimited period constraints, and can be matched anywhere,And that the exchange visit at home without distraction, and to speak with him on all subjects without embarrassment, and takes his advice in private matters,And mixes some of his humor, humor, if he wishes ..Among the young girl's situation is different, because the sexual difference between them makes the reservations, there are some moral and spiritual,Which require to be treated for their family nature sober ..7 - deal takes into account the social traditions: it should be in the range of suitable social traditions that we grew used to it, and where,Provided that veers towards the application of these traditions has committed and Segregation, and veering toward chaos and pornography.8 - rational not emotional deal: When you turn the stage of public admiration stage "your love", we find flowing emotion which seizes the mind and overwhelm him ..Valatefh if they beat on the mind, become blind can not see beyond the exterior ..
VI: Specifications of the way of dealing between the sexes:1 - look simple.2 - to deal quietly with no tension or fear.3 - do not talk directly carries the meanings or projections of sensory, fun and sedate, nice and quiet humor,And words is artificial and stilted, and not too light to market ..4 - meetings should come naturally, without making ..5 - words and compliments should be commensurate with the degree of friendship, and the level of trust between the parties ..6 - a sense of gender equality should prevail deal between them, Without a perverted relationship of equality ..7 - do not pretend that is not in us in front of others, and do not try to draw attention to hold as impressive ..Do not keep up with the words of the young Alastltaf and clowning, to elicit laughter of girls and Asthsanhn,And feel a false confidence to attract Antbahan .. As well as the girls do not try to draw attention of exaggerating the Altazad,Or persistent pampered and show exaggerated tenderness.If we consider this in our dealings with the opposite sex but to get to and properly treated.
How do I deal with the opposite sex?
....* I would like to be the daughters of my generation things that are loved by everyone and especially of the opposite sex but I can not deal with the opposite sex like them smoothly
And I do not make friends of them and this makes me feel lonely and isolated from society
It also generates an internal hatred and hatred towards my colleagues, what can I do? How do I deal with the opposite sex?
The solution is simple:
1 - a good understanding of the opposite sex:Here are some simple attributes that characterize the nature of each sex from the other according to psychologists.
The nature of man
The nature of women- Are physical and emotional maturity late, some time about the girl- Bolder and less shy- Words of appreciation and encouragement affect the- Things tend to process more than fiction- Tends to use physical force- The mind often takes place before the passion- Raise the sexual scenes sexual instinct directly- Rest of the girl kind polite- He loves to get on the leadership- He loves women in his subject and tend to violent or domineering woman - are physical and emotional maturity earlier than the young man about two years- Less aggressive and more shame- Words of appreciation and encouragement affect them more- Tend more to the imagination of young people- Tend to use emotions- Emotion is often the key to her character before the mind- Sexual images does not raise instinct in general, but some of the words or touches- Comfortable for a man committed to responsible- Less likely to command- Love for a man to stand beside them and led without love, but recognizes
Now, if each party was able to understand the nature of the opposite sex, this will gain him an important skill in dealing with him.
II: Towards a clean look to the opposite sex:* The tendency towards the opposite sex is a natural tendency in myself, God created man for looking for a partner - a counterpart - is integrated with and unite ..
But our view of risk to deviate towards the opposite sex, our eyes are working harder stares wrong.
Or engage in frivolous talk is purposeful; leading to the decline of this natural tendency to circle the pure ugly desires.* Clean look towards the opposite sex is to see a young man to the girl as:- A respected figure with the thought and aspirations, not like eating flesh.- My partner in humanity, and on the same my level and not less.- Complementary to me, I am I need a Thtajna.- A sister to me I will not accept or harm her wounded feelings.
............ ......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ....
* Clean and the view towards the opposite sex is to see a young woman to young man that:- I need my brother and I respect him.- A person, not a wolf or a demon.- My partner in humanity and my level on the same.- If there is a reckless young fiddler, there are also young Taher.* This view of pure sound of the opposite sex is a key factor in the success of the life process,
They are also the basics of the formation of personality, and so are the pillars of the life of purity.
Third, the areas of dating:
Interaction between the sexes begins preordains mutual understanding between them and getting to know - if - should be a natural way, without cost does not manufacture, and in conditions of normal life ..- There is a family long relationship: a long relationship structured under the parental care and guidance, to help young people to go out for self, and character building,- And refinement of the senses, and remove ambiguity about the nature of the opposite sex ..And the beginning of childhood and the exchange of visits with families Alkhrojat ..And meet the boys and girls in the light, without the pressure and the imposition of bad faith ..
The deliberate separation between the sexes, which is sometimes practiced at the family or outside his negative results ..The aim of they are doing - good faith - to avoid problems that may occur as a result of the interaction between the sexes,They believe that the absence of the phenomenon of the problems - thanks to the continuing divergence between the sexes - but it is a measure of integrity and chastity!Regardless of the suffering and internal conflicts that gripped the young man as a result of the feeling of isolation and confinement on the self ..!- There is also a long relationship in the scope of the study: the Activity conditions enable young people of both sexes within the school or university or private lessons- The availability of networking opportunities between the two .. These meetings are very useful building the collective personality of the individual,And refine the psychological and social experience .. The best way to take advantage of acquaintance between the sexes in the scope of the study to start a collective and collectively continue ..Ie, do not turn over time is limited to a special relationship with a student where the student separate from the rest of the group.Should also be limited in the scope of acquaintance school life, without relations to be developed outside the boundaries of the school or university ..- A long relationship in the vicinity of friends and neighbors: It should be in the light, as well, and naturally is artificial, and be mature and respectful ..
Fourth: The benefits of proper handling of gender:1 - to deal opens the way for young men and women to understand the nature of each other ..2 - to deal opens the way for normal growth, psychologically and morally, when all of a young girl ..3 - the interaction between gender compensate for the lack of some educational circumstances that may arise in which an individual ..4 - and reduces the pressure of nationality, because it creates a healthy atmosphere between the sexes together ..5 - contributes to personal maturity and construction, as it helps to refine the passion and turn in the direction of solving the other (love the year) ..6 - the participation of young men and women together in collective action contributes to - without doubt - the development of self-confidence,It also develops the ability to dialogue and respect the other opinion, qualifies as a method of understanding, and teaches etiquette etiquette of dealing with others in general,And addresses the frequency, and strengthens the ability to make decisions ..7 - The contribution of young men and women in the work of a collective sharedKalaaadad for concerts, exhibitions or planning a trip or service shelters .. All this helps to develop self-checkout process,And strengthen the spirit of service, in addition to the bombing of the technical capacity and the creativity of young men and women, and the discovery of skills and talent ..8 - The presence of young people in the group contributes - along with all the previous features - in the spiritual growth of young men and women ..This is because the life company does not develop the direction of the individual out for himself only, but give the group a spiritual tinge through common prayer,And study the Word of God, and joint approach.
Fifth, some deal only with the opposite sex (the proper handling characteristics between the sexes):Dealing with the opposite sex the art of an important and essential for life, and should begin to gradually gained since the beginning of adolescence ..And put here in front of you some important guidelines that will help you in dealing with the opposite sex:1 - treated group: love and respect for all without allocation, Valt_khasas be in a marriage relationship only,The composition of the binaries out of the marriage is playing with fire and erosion of the reputation of the parties. Flanfrad and isolation make the individual does not benefit the advantage of being in the group!2 - There should be a meaningful relationship and not a frivolous or merely Alastltaf only, and should also be treated to a specific area (in the study - at work - in the service) ..Here we can say with the right that society should be a mixed community, not the work of community friends .. This is a fact important social and educational.3 - treated Cor: should the deal between the sexes on mutual respect for people "other,"This required young men and women conduct a special dignity. There will be many young humor and clowning, and the girl is trying to draw attention to her clothes and her style ..3 - to have to deal in the light, and not in secret, so do not give the devil a chance to work.4 - should take into account the young man to deal gently with the girl and literature, and respected and appreciated by not Egerhaa offensive word,And adjusts his eyes always to deal with, so his instincts are not moving in the wrong direction.5 - should be sensitive to young to deal with the young man seriously and respectfully, and take into account the modestyIn the clothing and movements and how to speak with him so as not to stumble, and be prudent and think carefully before speaking and acting.6 - dealing in the limits: The method of interaction between two people of the same sex, is different - certainly - the young and deal for the girl ..Young person can meet with his friend at any time, and stay with him for an unlimited period constraints, and can be matched anywhere,And that the exchange visit at home without distraction, and to speak with him on all subjects without embarrassment, and takes his advice in private matters,And mixes some of his humor, humor, if he wishes ..Among the young girl's situation is different, because the sexual difference between them makes the reservations, there are some moral and spiritual,Which require to be treated for their family nature sober ..7 - deal takes into account the social traditions: it should be in the range of suitable social traditions that we grew used to it, and where,Provided that veers towards the application of these traditions has committed and Segregation, and veering toward chaos and pornography.8 - rational not emotional deal: When you turn the stage of public admiration stage "your love", we find flowing emotion which seizes the mind and overwhelm him ..Valatefh if they beat on the mind, become blind can not see beyond the exterior ..
VI: Specifications of the way of dealing between the sexes:1 - look simple.2 - to deal quietly with no tension or fear.3 - do not talk directly carries the meanings or projections of sensory, fun and sedate, nice and quiet humor,And words is artificial and stilted, and not too light to market ..4 - meetings should come naturally, without making ..5 - words and compliments should be commensurate with the degree of friendship, and the level of trust between the parties ..6 - a sense of gender equality should prevail deal between them, Without a perverted relationship of equality ..7 - do not pretend that is not in us in front of others, and do not try to draw attention to hold as impressive ..Do not keep up with the words of the young Alastltaf and clowning, to elicit laughter of girls and Asthsanhn,And feel a false confidence to attract Antbahan .. As well as the girls do not try to draw attention of exaggerating the Altazad,Or persistent pampered and show exaggerated tenderness.If we consider this in our dealings with the opposite sex but to get to and properly treated.
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